Executive Frame™ · Family law
EF|Law — Family

Psychology for family law
under pressure.

A practical programme for family lawyers working with conflict, complexity, urgency, and human distress. Delivered jointly by a clinical psychologist and senior family barrister.

The C³ Loop™ — Centre · Clarify · Choose
The S.H.I.F.T.™ reset

Four steps, for the hard moments.

A practical reset for the moments family law delivers without warning — the difficult interaction, the distressing disclosure, open conflict, sudden urgency, or a personal trigger. It takes under a minute, and it works in the room.

Stop

Interrupt the reaction before it takes over.

Hold

One slow breath. Let your body settle enough to think.

Focus

Return to the facts — what is real, and what is within your control.

Take Action

One deliberate next step, chosen rather than driven.

Co-facilitation

Clinical psychology and senior family law experience.

Every module is delivered jointly, so the psychology never floats free of the realities of contemporary family-law practice — and the practice advice never loses its clinical foundation.

Clinical lead

Dr Sarah Anticich

Clinical and Industrial/Organisational Psychologist. Developer of the Executive Frame™ and clinical architect of EF|Law — Family.

Legal lead

Richard Smith

Senior barrister, Montrose Chambers, Christchurch, specialising in family law. Co-designer and legal lead, bringing the lived specificity of current practice.

Ways to work with EF|Law — Family · Start free

Start with a useful move.

Free, practical tools for understanding what is happening and choosing a first next step.

Free

The Capacity Check™

Five minutes to find what's binding your capacity first — and a sensible starting place.

Interactive · 5 min
Free

S.H.I.F.T.™ quick-use guide

The four-step reset you can run in under a minute, wherever you are.

Guide · under a minute
Free

Phase worksheets

A fillable worksheet for each phase of the loop — Centre, Clarify, Choose.

Fillable PDF
Free

What is the Executive Frame™? — for family lawyers

A one-page introduction to the framework, written for family-law practitioners.

PDF · guide
Free

Family Law Reflective Journal

A regulated reflective practice, kept across a career — practice entries for before, and through, a matter.

Fillable journal
Free

Reflective Practice Handout

A private clinical tool for the minutes before and after a demanding encounter — C³ Loop™ and S.H.I.F.T.™ on one page.

PDF · one page
Free

The Pot & Gas Worksheet

A simple weekly stress monitor — what turns the heat up, and what lets the steam out.

Fillable PDF · weekly
Free

Browse the full library

Every free tool, guide, product, and programme for this arm — searchable, in one place.

Library · searchable